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  1. degrademe111

    degrademe111 Porn Surfer

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    if your brother was a navy SEAL and he called you and said if i die youll be fine youll forget about me and the next day after he calls you he sends home his dog tags what would you do
     
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  2. dman66

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    Thats though. You want to make sure he is ok, and if he is you don't want to mess up his naval record...but what if he's not ok? My step-daughters' fiance was here in my house 3 days before christmas. My wife asked him what was wrong, He said he was tired. Six hours later he hung himself. My step daughter was pregnant at the time. He did try to tell his dad he felt something was wrong. He even called 911 on one occasion. I've never seen a man cry so hard as at that funeral. But its still a personal and tough choice.
     
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  3. Trev1

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    If you think someone you know may self-harm, do something! You would never forgive yourself if you could have intervened and did not. All Armed Forces have resources they use to help people under stress.
     
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  4. xmo.bil

    xmo.bil Storylover

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    Pray for his soul, pray for his spirit...and that if he can be, that he be sustained.
     
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  5. anotheruser1

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    I would try to get evidence of something happening before going ape shit.
     
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  6. SamHatchet

    SamHatchet Porn Surfer

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    that's intense and tough hon. is there anyway you can get a hold of him to talk, preferably Skype so you can see his face?
     
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  7. coraline

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    I would be seriously concerned he was suffering with ptsd and if it was impossible for me to get to him quickly I would make sure I got someone there to help him, he helped his country at its time of need so now it's time for people to be there for his
     
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  8. Cheltenham

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    Just ignore it. It's just a cry for attention. At least, that's the response people have to self-harmers. And none of them ever committed suicide.
     
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  9. N.E. Woman

    N.E. Woman More Spicy than Sweet

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    I'm a little confused between the the first two posts. After reading the first, I thought, call someone from his unit or his superiors and "check up" on him immediately!!! Then I read the second post that said:
    Why would a call from a loved one "mess up" his naval record? Can't a sibbling just call and say "I haven't heard from Johnny for a while and I really want to talk to him"?

    I would rather come across as a slightly crazy 'worrywart' sister than god forbid something happens and I didn't do everything in my power to get to him.
     
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  10. Rixer

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    The first thing I would do is call him back and ask what is going on.
     
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  11. dman66

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    I was just concerned that if it was nothing, a "red flag" could be set off for no reason. But his life is more imporpant.
     
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  12. degrademe111

    degrademe111 Porn Surfer

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    i know for a fact this is not the way he talks hes so happy i called today they told me i cant talk to him until tomorrow i just hope hes okay
     
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  13. dman66

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    Are you ok?:stop:
     
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  14. degrademe111

    degrademe111 Porn Surfer

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    im just stuck
     
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  15. Cheltenham

    Cheltenham Ascetic Kitten

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    What did your brother say? Was he alright?
     
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  16. shadow walker

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    Never happen. Soldiers never part with their dog tags while enlisted and SEALs go through extensive mental health evaluations. Oh and SEALs write their last words in a letter to be sent home upon death.
     
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  17. degrademe111

    degrademe111 Porn Surfer

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    hes acting strange and it one month today that he can come home i hope hell open up then
     
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  18. Cheltenham

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    War affects everyone differently. There are organizations (like the Wounded Warrior Project) who help those in the service, or at least advertise as much. I think that is your best option. However, always offer to listen if he wants to talk. I'm sure that's a given. Don't try and force it out of him though.
     
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  19. degrademe111

    degrademe111 Porn Surfer

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    we have really great and close relationship he tells most of everything i just hope hes okay
     
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  20. Cheltenham

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    I hope he is okay too. It seems like he means a lot to you. :)
     
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